I understand there are stereotypical things for different ages, such as around ages 28-30 men usually loose themselves for a while, because they have lived a long relationship which ended. So this is when they try to find a way of being alone again.
But what I'm trying to say is, that I hate when people reflect things to persons age. I think everything is about personality, lived things (includes emotions, death, illness, parents divorce). And then if someone who is a few years older than me comes and says "Oh, but you are so young" I always feel like eating that person alive. Especially if this person hasn't lived any of those things I have gone through in very young age.
Some of the older people have never traveled alone, I started traveling alone when I was 18. Some of the people have always lived in a relationship - meaning they are used to share everything and live in a symbiosis with other person, I have never had a serious relationship.
So, I don't like people telling me what's going to happen when I grow up, because they have often lived different kind of life than me. They have made different selections. Our life's can't be compared.
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